First note, 2007
I had been planning to travel the world for more than
4 years and I always had some reason holding me back. Given my
upbringing and work-life that could seem strange (see About me Contact page).
Gradually, I realized that most of these reasons were self-made
obstacles and it basically just came down, like in most things, to
mastering my fear, ignoring others and living my life as I wanted to.
Most concerns people have, and I was not dissimilar, with the idea of
dropping everything and travelling after a significant work experience
are the classic fears of (i) managing financial needs and a possibly
"successful" career which is just starting, (ii) dealing with
expectations of friends, colleagues and family to, amongst others, buy
a house, start a family, etc., and (iii) leaving behind friends, loved
ones and fear of being alone.
Looking back, in 2007 various serendipitous events and people I met
contributed (mostly involuntarily) to give me the necessary courage to
take the "step over the edge". On the work front, I had been able to
finally convince myself that I was always going to be fine
no-matter what and that the world was full of opportunities to succeed
career wise if you really wanted to - today and tomorrow. I am
confident that I could always "drop back into the system". Dealing with
expectations of others became easier each day I saw my friends and
acquaintances settle for a "normal" life which I realized I didn't want
- I guess I concluded that nothing extraordinary was going to happen to
me in the subway in London... Travelling alone and being alone was the
one issue I had to grapple most with and I had always kept my hopes up
that some day someone would come along who would share my desire for a
very long journey - but one day it hit me: I had been in London for 7
years now and in that time I had been unable to find people like that.
In fact, very few I had met truly "inspired me". It was clear to me
that I would be more likely to meet incredible people on my journey.
So here we are. I have sold everything I own. Purchased an expedition
vehicle and am heading for a very long journey. I am not sure what I
will find along the way, but I am certain I will never be the same
again after that trip and I hope you will be able to follow some of my
stories through this website...